"Bite my nipples, BITE THEM!"

I feel like there's going to be a lot of whining in this post so brace yourself for this journey into whatever.

I could go on forever about problems that might arise during sex, things that the guy isn't good at addressing, or things the girl doesn't seem to put any effort into, whatever. I need to work more on making this an objective blog, talking about things that everybody might experience and not just my own as that's creepy and super personal, but I don't know if I could really discuss some of these things without being personal?

I think being able to cum quicker/faster (or maybe just being able to make yourself to cum, but I don't think you can do that?) or just not take forever might be a big issue. I know there always seems to be the issue of guys who are premature ejaculators or just take like 5 minutes, but I can't ever say I've had this problem. I used to be under the impression that having a lot of stamina was beneficial, but I think that sort of thing is specific to the girl. I think size/girth are large (heh) factors in the matter, as the bigger you are the better you might feel (I imagine? I wouldn't know from firsthand experience), but the quicker you're going to wear her out or make her super sore, which makes it not so much fun for her.

Knowing what turns the other person on is a big deal, and that's going to be time-dependent so I'm not going to go into that. Just depends on how much effort both parties are putting in.

I guess a complaint with the women would be something I've experienced a few times over my "sex-having" years involving effort. I think I would attribute this more to distaste in your partner, bad sex or disinterest than just flat-out inexperience with having sex in general, but I've noticed some girls don't seem to do anything during sex. Some girls might not like kissing at all (which is fine, albeit a bit boring perhaps) or not be up for a certain kind of foreplay  (don't touch my nipples, no spanking, whatever), but I'm not talking about any of that. I'm describing women who you're having sex with, for one reason or another, and nothing is happening. Perhaps there will be comments like "oh, you're not even hard yet?" or something equally disparaging (I would attribute that directly to distaste or disgust with the other person, as I think it is common knowledge that "it takes two to tango", and sex is a very interpersonal act that requires input from both people), but there is no help or assistance given, no foreplay or touching, as if the very act of getting naked and lying down is all that is necessary on her part.

Now, I think if it is just unawareness or inexperience, then communication would obviously be key, as you can't possibly know what is wrong unless somebody tells you, but if you're having sex with somebody I feel the very gesture would imply that you like them enough to try and please them in that sense (though I am very young, and this whole notion of having sex as a means to an end hasn't ever really occurred in my life).