I'm of the understanding that not all women are privy to the supposedly wonderful experience that is "squirting". I believe a more technical term would be experiencing a vaginal/uterine orgasm, but I don't think that always goes hand-in-hand with ejaculation, so I'm just going to use the slang term. I do understand that it's brought on by stimulation of the G-spot or Skene's gland, but I know that every women is different, and some are easier to get this kind of reaction out of than others. Researchers are still apparently baffled by what exactly women are expelling from their bodies, but some claim it is similar to prostate fluid in men (as the Skene's gland is homologous to the Prostate in men).
I've been told that (at least for some women) being intoxicated also helps achieve this kind of sensation, and some women can have a squirting orgasm several times in the span of a few hours, which is a real surprise for me, as I thought one or two of these squirting orgasms would exhaust somebody, but again, what do I know. Even though I'm a guy and will never experience this sort of thing first hand, being able to bring another this kind of experience is always blissful, as it seems that it doesn't happen all that often?
I used to have this idea that, as I continued meeting people and having sex with different individuals, I would learn more and become better at it(?), but I think now that is somewhat flawed or silly to expect. I haven't had sex with a whole bunch of people, mind you, but I don't know if that sort of thing makes you all that 'well-rounded' in that aspect. I'm starting to believe that time/effort spent with one specific person, learning what they like specifically and how you can tailor your "sexual script" to match what would best please them, is really the ultimate goal to be achieved. Now, other factors would definitely play a role in this, the first that comes to mind being communication and open-mindedness. Everybody is different, and everybody has a different set of things that turns them on. To shut down, ostracize, or belittle somebody for something that they find arousing is never a good PR tactic, especially if this person is of significant personal/emotional value in your life.
Perhaps if people were less embarrassed, scared or anxious about communicating and sharing their kinks (and, on the opposite end, if people were less judgmental, narrow-minded and opinionated), sexytime would be far better across the board. As it is right now, I think it just takes a leap of courage and an accepting, empathetic partner to really make sex all that it can be.
I've been told that (at least for some women) being intoxicated also helps achieve this kind of sensation, and some women can have a squirting orgasm several times in the span of a few hours, which is a real surprise for me, as I thought one or two of these squirting orgasms would exhaust somebody, but again, what do I know. Even though I'm a guy and will never experience this sort of thing first hand, being able to bring another this kind of experience is always blissful, as it seems that it doesn't happen all that often?
I used to have this idea that, as I continued meeting people and having sex with different individuals, I would learn more and become better at it(?), but I think now that is somewhat flawed or silly to expect. I haven't had sex with a whole bunch of people, mind you, but I don't know if that sort of thing makes you all that 'well-rounded' in that aspect. I'm starting to believe that time/effort spent with one specific person, learning what they like specifically and how you can tailor your "sexual script" to match what would best please them, is really the ultimate goal to be achieved. Now, other factors would definitely play a role in this, the first that comes to mind being communication and open-mindedness. Everybody is different, and everybody has a different set of things that turns them on. To shut down, ostracize, or belittle somebody for something that they find arousing is never a good PR tactic, especially if this person is of significant personal/emotional value in your life.
Perhaps if people were less embarrassed, scared or anxious about communicating and sharing their kinks (and, on the opposite end, if people were less judgmental, narrow-minded and opinionated), sexytime would be far better across the board. As it is right now, I think it just takes a leap of courage and an accepting, empathetic partner to really make sex all that it can be.
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